Re: Hillary 2008? Remember Last Year\'s Party & Pos
Risata,
Rain, I think you are being presumptious and stereotypical. Believe it or not, most women over the age of 25 are NOT catty, ultra picky and competitive.
You can think that, but you would be wrong. I have studies, facts, and statistics to back me up. Do you have such to back up your assertion in the second sentence? I don't want you to get the wrong idea, because I DO see you as NOT THE NORM when it comes to the majority of women. But basing the majority of women on your own feelings and experience does not support your case.
Here is just a smattering of the evidence that backs my claim:
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/17345308/
"While Clinton hopes to smash through the ultimate glass ceiling to become the nation's first female president, the Work & Power Survey conducted by Elle and MSNBC.com suggests that stereotypes about sex and leadership are alive and well. (snip)
While more than half our 60,000 respondents said a person's sex makes no difference to leadership abilities, most who expressed a preference said men are more likely to be effective leaders.
Of male respondents, 41 percent said men are more likely to be good leaders, and 33 percent of women agreed. And three out of four women who expressed a preference said they would rather work for a man than a woman."
And then there is:
http://steelturman.typepad.com/thesteeldeal/2006/09/catty_behavior.html
"Women are more likely than men to breed discontent and ill-feeling in the workplace, a study into workplace relations has found.
Auckland University of Technology psychologist Rachel Morrison said both sexes valued their colleagues, but used them in different ways."
And here is one specifically related to Hillary's goals:
http://www.evetahmincioglu.com/web/blog/index.php?s=presidential
"There was an interesting article in the Wall Street Journal on Saturday about how many executive women aren’t scrambling to get on the Hillary Clinton presidential bandwagon. (snip)
No matter what the reason, I think it’s interesting that the biggest business newspaper in the country did this blow out piece on how high-powered women aren’t, for the most part, supporting a woman. (snip)
But Hillary’s attempts to get a boat load of women business leaders on board, the article says, is turning out to be a tougher battle than one might expect. (snip)
This didn’t shock me because I often hear from women in the workplace that they don’t really respect other women in the workplace, especially when those women are their bosses. I’ve also had high-level women tell me they resented having to help other women moving up through the ranks because no one gave them a hand when they were clawing their way up the ladder. (This isn’t true of all the women I’ve interviewed but many do hold this opinion.)"
Perhaps in the areas of attracting men, and even then, you are looking at a MINORITY of highly INSECURE women.
Really? Evidence & facts to support? In fact, how many women have YOU dated, Risata? :D I have dated a lot and can tell you my experience is VERY different from what you claim. Again, you MAY be the exception to the rule, but it is FAR from a minority of women in the dating world. In fact, I once went out to a piano bar with a woman I had dated and broke up with. We were together but not "together". However, I noticed how many more women were paying attention to me (Kendra is a good looking woman with quite a prominant chest). When I mentioned this to Kendra she started "playing it up" by running her hands through my hair and playing as if "I was her property". The conclusion was that a LARGE number of women in the piano bar that we were at wanted me (and I got SEVERAL phone numbers that night) for no other reason than SHE "had me". We have done this over and over and the results are always the same.
Most us women tend to stick together.
I'd like to see evidence to support that claim, for the very articles I quote above seem to indicate that you are incorrect in this assessment of "most."
As a female with two teenaged daughters, I have very much considered voting for Hilary simply due to an emotional response and not a political one.
And this is what Hillary is HOPING for, but not likely to get much of. For you see, Hillary really does not have "political accomplishments" that she can point to. She likes to use the "experience" sales tactic, but does being the First Lady REALLY qualify as experience to be President? And what of her health care fiasco from the 90s? She certainly is not touting THAT as her experience. As my friend said (who I quoted above) she is a NOVELTY. So her best bet is to play on women's EMOTIONS because she really has not political track record of victories and major legislation to point to. And the fact that "most" women react from their emotions, rather than facts and logic is another well-documented point that would solidify her strategy. She WANTS to play to women's emotions.
I think that I would like for my daughters to see a female president instead of the insipid drug addicted promiscious hollywood paris britney types.
An interesting point, and I agree, but... who do you think pays for all the tabloid periodicals that keep idiots like Britney, Lindsay Lohan, and Paris Hilton in the spotlight? Certainly it is not MEN who devour this stuff. It is WOMEN. Young girls (sickly) look up to these women who have clearly no direction in life, and MANY older women enjoy seeing these "silver spoon" girls finally fail and get their "comeuppance".
Again, Risata, this is nothing personal against you, but I am afraid a large number of studies show that women DO have trouble getting along with each other and it is WELL beyond the areas of dating and affection/attention from men.
RMT