Ruthless, the reason why I want to know the name of my future wife is because I have a list of women who I'd like to marry and I just want closure on the matter so I'll know which one I'm going to marry and can start persuing her. Please respond so I'll know you read this message.
dude...
3-2-1...1-2-3... what the heck... is bothering me...
ok, i feel better now...
the answer to finding out who you will marry is simple, but must be done in this correct order.
starting at the top of the list, date each woman, and ask her questions about herself. afterwards, scratch out the ones that you didnt like their answers. these women are incompatible to you for a long term marriage.
afterwards, take each of the women left out on the list again. have fun on this date, and try to see if a connection develops. scratch out all of the women you did not connect with.
you have to be honest, and not look at looks. in order to find your soul mate, you must peer into her soul, and judge it to be similar to yours.
by now, your list should be down to just a few names. this is where it gets hard, and this is the point where you could screw your entire life if you do not act correctly.
by now, you should be incredibly attracted to all of the women left on the list.
now, you leave your mind at home, and go on the third and final set of dates. on this final set of dates, your soul mate will become apparently clear (so long as you dont fall in love with all of them.) you have to cut your ties, and become an honorable man, for your soul mate.
now, for warnings: if you dont do it in this order, you will ruin any and all chances of your soul mate coming into your view.
if you dont become an honorable man, the woman will find another man that she deems honorable. if she sees weakness in you, and she hasnt developed her keen insight of love and understanding of herself, she will ignore you. the same applies to you.
i hope the best for you. good luck.