There are three forms of "happiness"... well, six if you count delusions, but let's remain logical for a moment:
The three main forms of happiness are: Satisfaction, Joy and Serenity.
Satisfaction is a feeling of intense pleasure and minute love. Serenity is a feeling of intense love and minute pleasure. Joy is a feeling of equal love and equal pleasure.
Examples of satisfaction: Eating a hearty meal. Getting a strike at the bowling alley. Getting a good performance review at work.
All of these are particulary pro-survival, but you generally do them by yourself.
Examples of joy: Meeting your girlfriend as she gets off the train. Winning a football game. Landing a big deal in business.
All of these are generally pro-survival, but you generally share these moments with other people.
Examples of Serenity: Sitting on the porch by yourself or with some friends just having a quiet moment. Holding a loved one close, without saying much, or anything at all. Taking a leisurely stroll through nature.
All of these are outward signs of your confidense in your own ability to survive, and you are simply allowing your senses to take in all that affects you and feeling a deep, inner connection with your surroundings. Some might even say that Serenity is taking your survival for granted, and just enjoying whatever's around you. There's nothing wrong with it... it's very healthy.
The two "best" emotions out there are Passion and Serenity.
Passion is a little bit o' anger and a little bit o' love. Anger is actually a combination of love and pain. It really has nothing to do with hatred, except that the natural reacton to anger is vindictiveness, which is equal and opposite to anger, being an equal mix of pleasure and hatred.
Being passionate about something means that you love something intensely, but you are angry about something that is happening to the object of your love, which makes you act passionately in rectifying the situation, that the object of your love will continue to endure.
Good parents often act passionately in raising their children. They offer encouragement, and show love even when they have to punish their children. Spanking is only ever used as a last resort, and may not be used at all, as these parents are often very clever in getting a child to behave.
Bad parents tend to be vindictive about everything. They're the types that have no remorse in over-spanking a child, or punishing EVERYTHING by spanking, or not letting kids fight their own battles and such. When I see parents like that I just wanna kick'em squar in the nuitz.
but then I realize that wouldn't be very passionate of me. So I just ask the kid why he would do that and usually the kid is all like "huh? wha? someone cares what I think?!?!"
I hate stupid parents. People should require licenses to breed /ttiforum/images/graemlins/tongue.gif
But this letter was supposed to be about happy! so...
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