Marcus,
The "point the universe is expanding from" is not so much a problem in determining direction. (I may have unintentionally mis-lead in using this term above.)
The problem is that there IS no real point that the universe can be said to be expanding "from". According to Cosmology, attempting to even define a hypothetical "center" for the universe is itself a flawed concept.
Galaxies of a certain age (like ours) are collapsing. The spiral arms are winding tighter toward it's center. Other newer ones are themselves expanding. But...
The Milky Way is part of the Local cluster which is itself expanding slightly. The Local cluster is part of an even greater Super cluster which is expanding more rapidly than this. The Super Cluster is moving "away" from every other super cluster in the known universe. (Overall). At a fairly equal rate IN ALL DIRECTIONS.
However, "coagulation" patterns occur and dissappear over time. The universe has patterns of unequal distribution to it's texture. The patterns change over time. When Cosmology says the Universe is "expanding", this may be true, but it is a gross oversimplification in terminology of what the process is.
In a way, ANY point that would be definable within it COULD be said to be the center. Or in other words, there isn't one. There is no place that can be defined as one edge that is opposite an opposing edge. Hence, no definable center. But even that is a simplification. Since space AND time began at the big bang, any point in the universe can be said to be equally infinite in distance from any hypothetical "edge" since all we can concieve of is contained within this infinity. The very words begin to become inadequate for accurate description. We're stuck with flawed conceptualization for now. (No MY head is starting to hurt!)
I do agree with you that speed does not constitute time travel. Just Time dilation. And even that is only relative for the objects you are comparing the velocity variance for. i.e. In the Twins "paradox", the traveler ages slower. But it's NEVER measurable unless he returns to the original point of reference, or at least uses some external reference point to compare it to. If he only ever traveled AWAY at high speed, who can say for sure just which one is traveling "away" from the other. This is the classic TWO body problem. The effect may indeed be very real, and measured by experimentation. But if you NEVER returned, how would you EVER prove just how much less you had aged by being gone. Universal center, time dilation, etc., all boil down to "Compared to what?"
It's why I like to use the example of the traveler staying within sight of the one who does not. At least they can agree on the fact that they both observe the earth make the same number of revolutions around the Sun. It's the traveler's biological clock that slows down. Like the mechanism of any clock he takes with him. But only when he actually returns to the original point of departure is the difference actually measurable. Both would count 50 revolutions of the Earth (for example), but the traveler would have aged lass in the same number of revolutions. For the traveler, a revolution of the earth around the Sun DOES NOT constitute a "year" of his biological time. Cute huh! But's it's been measured and proven to be this way. No "time travel" involved in any of this.
Nuideas,
I very much agree with your point about what we take for granted now, that we used to think was impossible.
Truth is, I sincerely HOPE I am wrong about time travel not being possible. For sure there are many things we have not thought of as yet, or even conceived of.
All I know is that for me, the "classic" time machine concept, or using a so called worm hole to travel "forward" or "backward" in time is a concept of time travel that just doesn't wash for me as even logical.
For me there are two simple conditions that we tend to overlook which are right in front of us at all times, and so painfully obvious, we ignore them and try to look past them.
1. The past has already happened. It's over. It no longer exists. Anywhere, anywhen.
2. The future hasn't happened yet. It doesn't exist anywhere, anywhen. Although we are constantly traveling to it every instant just by being alive.
In the classic sense, there is no "past" or "future" to "travel" to.
Peace,
Lee