>Except that they are moving away not losing mass, Red shifted radiation proves this.<
Sorry I wasn't clear enough. Imagine a drop of rain- it's a drop's-worth of water with a speck of dust; every drop of rain has dust in it, that's what the H2O adheres to. The speck of dust in the drop is us or the planets or whatever and the water is the gravity (cohesion) of this drop of water. The car's hood is COBE. With this scenario, it's easy to deduce the car's hood is expanding. Looking out, we see all other specks of dust moving away from us and each other. Ironically, Raimnan's analogy of the universe as doughnut shaped is absolutely correct, think of it this way:
Imagine a slinky. Tie both of its ends together into a doughnut shape then send an electrical charge through it. Then watch was the charge spins around and around as it goes around the doughnut shape. The doughnut is the cosmos, the charge is our tangable present; we are a spark of reality zooming en masse through space, which is doughnut shaped. This explains why everything is moving away from everything else everywhere- as we (the spark) approach the outer surface area there is clearly more room; everything is flying apart. Then we whip back and start contracting en masse towards the next Big Crunch, which is in the innermost part of the Slinky-doughnut, then the Big Bang and expansion and we do it all over again.
As far as red shifting, I have been thinking about that one for about two years and I am no closer to an answer. I truly do not believe galaxies can be 10 billion light years away from us- spatially it's impossible too- that galaxy, whose light left 10 billion light years ago did not traverse 10 billion light years-worth of space to reach out point, a lot of it was natural expansion of the dougnnut-shaped universe (or aether. Personally I call it "neutral energymass", scientists also call "that stuff" dark matter... it's the unknown part of the universe that accounts for nearly all of the universe).
If we had a spaceship that allowed us to instantly travel to any point in the universe and we zipped 10 billion light years away to where that star's light is coming from, we would not see that star because it's not in that spot right now, in fact it does not exist anymore.
More importantly, if everything is truly moving away from everything else at increasing relativistic speeds, it could also mean that the Big Bang is still happening more now than ever before- how else do you explain why everything is speeding up and not slowing down? But where is it? Everywhere? Maybe. I think that if we had a telescope and looked at "everything in the universe" for a long enough period of time we may end up seeing God's eye through a telescope looking at us (car hood)!
And part of it is theology too- if this is true, then it's impossible to realistically circumnavigate the universe and return and I don't think God wanted it that way. I am just trying to find the logic to back that up. Why would God make a universe we can see but never be able to physically reach? Logically it makes sense that there's gotta be another way but I am trying to figure out the logic behind it, facts don't change to suit the whims of the postulators. Closest I came is time travel- if you can travel time you can control time. If I were from a civilization a million years ahead of this one I wouldn't be sending spaceships to faraway stars, I'd be sending time machines far enough back in time to where that star was here, not the other way around then "put it in reverse" and take pictures of that star we see it up close today. THAT is my goal: realistic, practical time travel. Why? Because it makes sense, we only need enough science behind it to be able to make it happen, not account for every quark in the universe because that's impossible.