Thanks for the book recommendation ProgBoy. You seemed so upset with my posting I felt the need to reply:
On the subject of the Feynman diagrams, I was referring to something that I read years ago saying that the arrows on the diagrams that indicate particle polarity are reversed when indicating anti-matter. Someone realised that (taking these arrows literally, which was not Feynman's original intention ) they COULD indicate a normal particle travelling backward in time, which is what makes it appear as anti-matter in the first place. To upset you even more, it was suggested that the anti-particle might, in fact, be the very SAME normal particle with which it was interacting...ie, meeting itself as it travels back in time from some point in the future!
I'm afraid I don't have any anti-matter with which to test this idea (it wasn't my idea in the first place either...), so I cannot be as certain as you obviously are.
As for 'charge having nothing to do with it' - Why not hmmm?...What IS charge anyway? Or spin, or magnetic moment?
As with most things (if not all...) in Quantum Theory, it remains just that: THEORY, not Quantum Absolute Certainty...Dick Feynman said himself that 'nobody understands Quantum Physics'...